Hey there, cishet men! Are you ready to learn how to give your partner the pleasure they deserve? Women’s pleasure is often ignored in the bedroom, but it’s time to change that. Here’s our guide for cishet men on women’s pleasure:
Communication is key
The first step in giving your partner pleasure is communication. Ask your partner what they like and what they don’t like. Ask them if they want to try something new. Listen to their responses and adjust your approach accordingly. Remember, everyone is different, so what worked for your last partner might not work for your current one.
Tease and tantalize
Women’s pleasure often takes longer than men’s, so take your time. Don’t rush straight to intercourse. Spend time on foreplay, exploring your partner’s body and finding out what they like. Use your hands, mouth, and toys to stimulate your partner before moving on to penetration. Use your tongue to flick, swirl, and suck on the clitoris. Pay attention to your partner's reactions and adjust your technique accordingly. And don't forget about the rest of the vulva, explore and caress every inch of it.
Clitoral stimulation is key
The clitoris is the key to women’s pleasure. It’s the most sensitive part of the female body and the most direct path to orgasm. Use your fingers, tongue, or a vibrator to stimulate the clitoris. Experiment with different techniques, such as circular or up-and-down motions, to find what feels best for your partner.
G-spot stimulation
The G-spot is a sensitive area inside the vagina that can also lead to intense pleasure and orgasm. Use your fingers or a toy to stimulate the G-spot, which is located on the front wall of the vagina about two inches in. Experiment with different techniques, such as a “come-hither” motion or a firm pressure, to find what feels best for your partner.
Multiple orgasms
Women have the potential for multiple orgasms, so keep going even after your partner has climaxed. Keep up the stimulation and build up the tension again. The more orgasms, the merrier!
Giving your partner pleasure is all about communication, taking your time, and exploring different techniques and positions. Don’t be afraid to experiment and try new things. By focusing on your partner’s pleasure, you’ll both have a more satisfying and enjoyable sexual experience.